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jiggo

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Posted: Fri Feb 02, 2007 9:52 pm

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Folks...d rate @ wich r/ships dey break...e dey give me concern o...
make we yarn here...wat do u tink is an ideal r/ship? wat r ur expectations?

alljober, birin...un1nhibit3d...ova to U....walegate the analysts :arrow:

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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 10:36 am

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Funny,
My expectation is SYMBIOTIC in nature

I mean "give me i give you." Both must be mutual

Respect, Honour, Give, Love and care for one another
where one lacks, encouragement is needed at least for
a while to boost the other one confidence. But when no
green light is shown its better you back off cos you may end up
hurt..................TWO CANNOT WALK 2GETHER EXCEPT THEY AGREE!

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Posted: Sat Feb 03, 2007 4:30 pm

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well, Mr. wale...u sure av raised a point there u know!

I subscribe to real understanding in a r/ship..., sacrifice (this is about 2 diff. folks coming togeda...so som tins wich one values @times has to go...less of self-justification), trust...i mean real trust...if dia's no trust..i dont buy that kind of r/ship...i no like Nagging sha o :lol:

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Posted: Sun Feb 04, 2007 5:41 pm

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its amazing that birin, un1nhibit3d, alljober et al are yet to post on this topic..haba, make una talk now...una dey secured...jiggo is on ur side

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Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 12:52 pm

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Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 12:54 pm

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to further add to wat av said do far...

*past lives [deals] should be addressed earlier stages of r/ship...dont be afraid to say it...The secret no one has to know...will l8r be revealed
*3rd party should seriosly be avoided o...3 is a crowd...though oversight counselling is need @times...
*Do not cheat...4wateva reason [dont have anoda folks dat send u recharge card & u say nothing dey happen...Yoruba adage dey we say...d tin wey u no go eat, u no kuku smell am]
* Learn to give...nothing is too small
*Dialogue/communication is highly needed...dont assume...it can b costly

i'll talk more on The 5Love Langugages.... :arrow:

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Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 1:02 pm

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Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 2:36 pm

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Posted: Mon Feb 05, 2007 5:08 pm

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birin...oun ti eniyan ko ni je, kii fii run imu...

i don c wia that dey cause katakata for rships...d guy wey send u recharge...u tink say na charity organization he dey run...nothing goes for nothing o...he go expect commensurate and positive response from u..at least...make hin work no jasofo

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Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 11:21 am

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Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 3:28 pm

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walegate thank youuuuuuuuuuu o,jiggo anythin to add,cus mii i am still collecting recharge cards frm friends who are the opposite sex

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Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 4:30 pm

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Posted: Tue Feb 06, 2007 7:27 pm

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Posted: Wed Feb 07, 2007 1:14 pm

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For me, friendship is the highest order in relationships. Me and my Man must be friends.
Outside that, carry went.
And i try not to have expectations. The bible says 'hope differed makes the heart sick'. People are not spirits. If i would like you to call mo often, il tell you. If i dont understand a particular thing you do, i ask explanation.
We put in too much energy into the love aspects of our relationship.Seek ye first friendship...love would follow.
If you married me strictly cos of love, when eye clear you and you can now see my faults, youd be hugely disappointed :cry:

.But as friends, we love, hoping for change but accepting the person none the less. This is my humble submission garned from my few years on this earth.

Oya, talk ya own :arrow:

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Posted: Wed Feb 07, 2007 5:44 pm

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hmm...un1nhibit3d :lol:

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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 12:34 pm

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We marry not only because of Love, though majorly because of love
but also because of Attraction, Faith and Belief, Ego, Hope,
and many other trivial things

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Posted: Thu Feb 08, 2007 9:57 pm

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Posted: Sun Feb 11, 2007 10:08 pm

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is one's past reallly worth discussing in a r/ship [securty reasons] :?:

lets b frank... abi na frown

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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 12:08 pm

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By Ego i meant Pride not money.....

You asked "Can the past be discussed..?"

Why not?
I think you should both know at least the basics about one another.
You should know if your spouse is in debt so you know how to pay
it when you eventually get married..........that's just an example

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Posted: Mon Feb 12, 2007 8:39 pm

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Posted: Tue Feb 13, 2007 10:11 am

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Posted: Tue Feb 13, 2007 8:42 pm

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hmm, am tinking of wearing safety goggles o

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